I rang that bell so hard I thought I might break it.
Nine months of cisplatin chemo. Twenty-seven infusions. Hundreds of hours sitting in a chair with poison dripping into my veins. And on my last day at UCSF, I got to ring the bell.
If you’ve never been through cancer treatment, you might not know about the bell. It’s this actual bell mounted on the wall in the chemo unit. When you finish your last treatment, you ring it. Everyone hears it. Nurses stop what they’re doing. Other patients look up. Some of them smile. Some of them cry.
Because that bell means you made it.
I rang it three times. Hard. The sound echoed through the whole floor.
And then I cried like a baby in front of twenty strangers.
The Last Infusion
My final chemo session was in September 2011. Eight months after my Whipple surgery. Nine months since I started the protocol.
I walked into the infusion center that day feeling lighter than I had in almost a year. Not physically lighter. I’d actually gained weight back by then. But mentally lighter. Because I knew this was it.
Last bag. Last needle. Last time sitting in that chair for six hours watching poison drip into my port.
The nurses knew it was my last day. They always know. They keep track of your cycles better than you do.
One of them came over while they were setting up my IV and said, “You ready to ring that bell, Fatty?”
Fatty.
She’d been calling me that for weeks. It was a compliment. When I started chemo, I was maybe 170 pounds after losing 40 from the tumor and surgery. By the end, I was pushing 185. Gaining weight during chemo meant the treatment was working. My body was healing. I was going to live.
So yeah. Fatty was the best nickname I’d ever had.
The Weight Thing
Nobody talks about how weird weight becomes during cancer treatment.
Before diagnosis, I was 210 pounds. Healthy. Normal. Maybe a little heavy but nothing crazy.
The tumor dropped me to 165. I looked skeletal. My face was hollow. My clothes hung off me. I needed rope to hold up my pajama pants.
Then came surgery. Then came chemo. And somewhere around month four or five, I started gaining weight back.
Not a lot at first. A pound here. Two pounds there. But it was happening.
The nurses celebrated every pound like I’d won the lottery. They’d weigh me at the start of each session and announce my weight to the whole unit. “185 today! Look at you!”
It felt absurd. I was getting pumped full of chemicals that made me nauseous and exhausted and foggy, but because the number on the scale was going up, everyone was thrilled.
And they were right to be thrilled. Because gaining weight meant my body wasn’t fighting itself anymore. The tumor was gone. The chemo was cleaning up whatever cells were left. And I was rebuilding.
That’s when Fatty became my official nickname.
The Bell Ceremony
After my last infusion finished, the nurse unhooked me from the IV and walked me over to the bell.
It’s not a big bell. Maybe six inches across. Brass. Mounted on a wooden plaque with a little poem about courage and finishing the fight.
I’d watched other people ring it over the past nine months. Some rang it quietly. Some rang it once and walked away. Some had their families there taking photos and crying.
I was alone. My girlfriend had to work. My parents were back East. It was just me and the nurses and the other patients in their chairs.
The nurse handed me the rope attached to the clapper and stepped back.
“Ring it loud,” she said. “You earned it.”
So I did.
I grabbed that rope and rang the bell three times. Hard enough that my arm hurt after. Hard enough that everyone on the floor heard it.
The nurses clapped. A few patients gave me weak thumbs up from their chairs. One old guy yelled “Congrats!” across the room.
And I just stood there crying. Big, ugly, relieved crying.
Because it was over. The surgery was over. The chemo was over. The tumor was gone. I was going to live.
The Moment Nobody Prepares You For
Ringing the bell is supposed to be this triumphant moment. And it is. But it’s also terrifying.
Because while you’re in treatment, you have a plan. Surgery date. Chemo schedule. Doctor appointments. Lab work. You’re doing something. Fighting something. Moving toward a goal.
Then you ring the bell and suddenly there’s no plan. No more weekly infusions. No more nurses checking on you. You’re just supposed to go home and be a cancer survivor.
What the hell does that even mean?
I stood there after ringing the bell, and this wave of panic hit me. What now? What if it comes back? What if the chemo didn’t get everything? What if I’m celebrating too early?
One of the nurses must have seen it on my face because she came over and put her hand on my shoulder.
“You’re going to be fine,” she said. “You’re young. You’re strong. You gained all that weight back. Your labs look good. Go live your life.”
I nodded. I didn’t totally believe her. But I wanted to.
Since I Was Going to Live
The day after I rang the bell, I went shopping.
I hadn’t bought new clothes in over a year. Everything I owned was either too big from the weight loss or too small from the weight gain. I’d been wearing the same three outfits on rotation because nothing else fit.
But now I was done. The cancer was gone. I was going to live.
So I went to Target and bought new jeans. New shirts. New shoes. Nothing fancy. Just normal clothes that fit my normal body.
I remember standing in the fitting room trying on jeans and thinking, “Since I’m going to live, I can go get new clothes.”
It sounds stupid. But it was huge. For a year, I’d been in survival mode. Everything was temporary. Don’t buy new clothes because you might lose more weight. Don’t make plans because you might be too sick. Don’t think about the future because you might not have one.
Ringing that bell changed everything. The future was real again. I could buy jeans. I could make plans. I could think past next week.
The Survivors Club
After you ring the bell, you’re in the club. The cancer survivors club. It’s not a club anyone wants to join, but once you’re in, you’re in for life.
Other survivors can spot you. There’s this look. This understanding. You see someone at a coffee shop with a port scar on their chest, and you just know. You nod. They nod back. No words needed.
You’re part of something now. Something you never asked for but can’t undo.
And honestly? It’s not all bad. The club sucks. The membership requirements are terrible. But the people in it are some of the toughest, most resilient humans you’ll ever meet.
They’ve all rung their bells. They’ve all cried in infusion centers. They’ve all wondered if they’d make it.
And they did. Just like I did.
Fourteen Years Later
I’ve been cancer-free for 14 years now. Longer than some doctors expected when they first saw my scans.
I still think about that bell sometimes. The sound it made. The way the nurses clapped. The relief that hit me so hard I could barely breathe.
Ringing the bell doesn’t mean you’re cured forever. It just means you finished the fight in front of you. There might be more fights later. More scans. More anxiety. More waiting rooms.
But in that moment, you won. You made it through surgery and chemo and all the hell that comes with it. You’re still here.
That’s worth celebrating. That’s worth ringing a bell so loud everyone hears it.
If You’re About to Ring Your Bell
If you’re reading this and you’re getting close to your last treatment, let me tell you something.
Ring that bell as loud as you can. Don’t be shy. Don’t be embarrassed. Don’t worry about making a scene.
You fought cancer. You survived surgery. You made it through treatment. You earned the right to make noise.
Bring your family if you want. Take photos. Cry. Laugh. Do whatever you need to do.
Because that moment matters. It’s the line between patient and survivor. Between fighting and healing. Between wondering if you’ll make it and knowing you did.
I rang my bell 14 years ago and I can still hear it. That sound lives in my head as a reminder that I made it. I’m still here. I won.
You will too.
What Comes After the Bell
The bell is the end of treatment. But it’s not the end of recovery.
After I rang the bell, I still had years of figuring out how to live with half a pancreas and a rearranged digestive system. I still had to dial in my Creon doses and vitamin protocols. I still had to learn what foods worked and what foods sent me running to the bathroom.
Recovery doesn’t end when treatment ends. It just changes.
But knowing I was cancer-free made all of it easier. The Creon adjustments. The supplement tweaking. The meal planning. All of it was manageable because I wasn’t fighting cancer anymore. I was just learning to live.
And that’s what the bell represents. Not perfection. Not being cured. Just being done with the immediate fight so you can focus on living.
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